DadLife be hard these days

DADLife “It’s one thing to be a great dad it’s another to actually be a great dad who gets to see his kids…”! I Love my kids just wish I got to see them….

Definitely not fun not seeing your own kids grow up! Trust me it sucks miss them so much! #DadLife #Surfman374 #DMR one year till I can leave texas and I am definitely gonna visit my kids as much as I can!

BTW I love them and totally appreciate everything the #momlife did for them. So thank you ladies for being the moms you are! Because life definitely wasn’t easy on any of us. Trust me I’m all about keeping families whole! Specially military families after being divorced 3x’s not seeing my kids that many years let me tell ya what I would give anything to just be able to have fun with them at the beach. Honestly military, law enforcement, EMS, any job for that matter man or woman! When you got a family at home!

Do the best you can for them with them and be forgiving! Make sure ya date each other often! And don’t let shit ruin your marriage because as hard as it is to be away from my kids it’s even harder on the kids. Being gone 1/2-3/4 a year for any amount of years is hard on everyone. I would give anything to come home to a loving wife and family! So much so I post on social media praying you read this and do your best for your partner your kids! I mean that! Don’t be afraid to speak truth don’t be afraid to have uncomfortable conversations don’t be afraid to love each other or be loyal! I mean why cheat? Why hate on each other? Wake up and love on each other! Trust me loneliness sucks definitely sucks not seeing my kids! I know they know I love them! But they also watched me work hard for rigsreefclassicspearfishing gator-gripp rack systems, do a hobby called SaltySoulTaxidermy build a paintball field called BlackNBluePaintball build an online store selling paintball guns and gear they watched it all and they watched me loose it or sacrifice it because I had to transfer or had it taken or to much lies got spread! Seriously why hate someone who’s just trying to enjoy life build a brand build a legacy show his kids to go all in… I don’t understand why people can’t be more supportive vs destructive sad but reality imagine leaving home 25 years ago no holidays with families because your serving then loosing it all 3 times in new strange places sucks but hey here’s to push-ups and walking my ass off sober! And praying people read my shit and learn from it! Love is the answer #love #military #lawenforcement #brand #socialmedia #work #job #people #thankyou For reading maybe one day it will All payoff lmfao till then dad loves ya kids miss y’all

“My kids they watched me work hard for #rigsreefclassicspearfishing #pullsetgrip #gatorgripp #gatorgripphdgator-gripp rack systems”, do a hobby called #SaltySoulTaxidermy build a paintball field called #BlackNBluePaintball build an online store selling paintball guns and gear they watched it all and they watched me loose it or sacrifice it because I had to transfer or had it taken or to much lies got spread! Seriously why hate someone who’s just trying to enjoy life build a #brand build a l#egacy show his kids to go all in… #LOVE I don’t understand why people can’t be more supportive vs destructive sad but reality imagine leaving home 25 years ago 1998 no holidays with families because your serving your country then loosing it all 3 times in new strange places then coming out of all of it with new friends and family looking at ya like your crazy lmfao nope it’s called anxiety depression insomnia ptsd y’all are crazy for not loving me more lmfao sucks but hey here’s to push-ups and walking my ass off sober! And praying people read my shit and learn from it! Love is the answer #love #military #lawenforcement #brand #socialmedia #work #job #people #thankyou For reading maybe one day it will All payoff lmfao till then dad loves ya kids miss y’all @surfman374 @rigsreefclassicspearfishing on IG “

My kids they watched me work hard for #rigsreefclassicspearfishing #pullsetgrip #gatorgripp #gatorgripphdgator-gripp rack systems”, do a hobby called #SaltySoulTaxidermy build a paintball field called #BlackNBluePaintball build an online store selling paintball guns and gear they watched it all and they watched me loose it or sacrifice it because I had to transfer or had it taken or to much lies got spread! Seriously why hate someone who’s just trying to enjoy life build a #brand build a l#egacy show his kids to go all in… #LOVE I don’t understand why people can’t be more supportive vs destructive sad but reality imagine leaving home 25 years ago 1998 no holidays with families because your serving your country then loosing it all 3 times in new strange places then coming out of all of it with new friends and family looking at ya like your crazy lmfao nope it’s called anxiety depression insomnia ptsd y’all are crazy for not loving me more lmfao sucks but hey here’s to push-ups and walking my ass off sober! And praying people read my shit and learn from it! Love is the answer #love #military #lawenforcement #brand #socialmedia #work #job #people #thankyou For reading maybe one day it will All payoff lmfao till then dad loves ya kids miss y’all @surfman374 @rigsreefclassicspearfishing on IG

dadlife this is how I deal with missing my kids #anxiety #depression #insomnia #ptsd #loosing companies hobbies dreams time with kids #divorce #rigsreefclassicspearfishing #gatorgripp #saltysoultaxidermy #pullsetgrip #blacknbluepaintball #afrasgoldmedal #chesterrbenderaward #surfman374 #dmr why hashtag? Simple let’s everyone see how far you can where ya came from what you did what your built what you branded what legacy you left behind #loveistheanswer #postit #tagit #shareit because remember I ain’t seen my kids and years and my family since like 1992/1998 true story #Veterans #ActiveDuty then when ya come home and they don’t know ya anymore makes it even more epic! Sad but the whole family should be made whole not just the heroes my now exwife wasn’t my doctor she was my best friend and wife hope she still is but who cares that’s another story the past all I can do is share my healing thoughts because it heals me! Amen spirit world is real world! Lost it all for what? To post about it? Talk about it? How about maybe change your life, so you go home hug your wife! Husband what ever your married too is on you! Who you love on you! But be faithful please specially when kids are involved and love eachother help people grow their dreams! Damn y’all you think it’s easy being this honest? It helps! But sucks! Because I miss my family kids and friends #surfman374 @rigsreefclassicspearfishing @surfman374 and each #momlife taught me something helped me become me now! I grew and learned ℹ life for forgiveness of self and others don’t mean ya need to run around sinning just try to be a little better each day chaos Order love hate some words we can actually control saying and excepting don’t give up!

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